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Indian Teens Learning about Sex from Porn Sites – Check Last Section

Indian Teens learning sex from porn

If you are an Indian teenager and you are here from search engines, then we understand the stuff you are curious for.

Don’t run away, here we are trying to have a dialog with you guys only.

We are not here to blame you guys. We are trying to understand the situation and to initiate discussion on this topic. Please spend 10 minutes of yours reading this.

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Teenagers from any part of the world going to be curious about Sex. Their age, physiological and psychological changes will compel them to know about sex. This is not about Indian teens only, this happens all over the world and it is natural. So, don’t feel guilty. But that doesn’t mean one should promote PORN (pornography) as a solution to satisfy those curiosities. Let’s debate it out.

What Indian Teens are Searching & Watching Online?

For learning or out of curiosity or just for fun; Indian teens are doing a lot of sex related searches on Google and YouTube. We wish we could tell you those exact search keywords but we are skipping it for now. We will give you an overview, people (teens and adults too) searching for western, Indian teenagers related, MMS scandals, Hindi sex jokes, homemade, blonde porn videos. There is much more in the list but you got the idea.

What you guys seeing on most of these sites is amateur, scam, stolen content. There are some major sites who create production quality content but the content is created for pleasure purpose, not for education. And that’s exactly the problem is, Indian teens learning about sex from these scam websites. Let’s discuss what problems it creates and why we should care about it.

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Why Indian Teens Are Watching Porn

The answer is simple, there is no other proper source available to know stuff, to fathom those sex-related curiosities. Our parents are not ready to discuss it with us, our education system doesn’t have any curriculum which will help in this area. Plus Sex is kinda taboo in India, so one speak about it openly. This forces Indian teens to watch porn. Porn may come in various forms mainly videos, photos, audios, magazines etc.

How does it affect you?

First of all, porn is made for pleasure, not for education. Even the production quality porn are not meant to teach you. Sex is not about only intercourse and experiments you see online, there is much more to know. You got to know more about your body first, then health effects, Sexually transferable diseases (STDs), teen pregnancy , birth control, sex-related abuse, and violence etc.

If you are watching for fun and you are addicted to it then you may face some problems in future. Don’t worry, we are not talking about physical problems. Later in life, you may expect unrealistic, experimenting sexual relationship from a future partner, which may create problems in relations. You might loose the interest in physical intimacy and go for watching porn only. This does happen.

We are not trying to scare you and we are also not saying that porn should be banned.

We respect individual freedom. What we are trying to tell you guys is that porn is not the best way to learn about sex. You may watch for fun (you understand what kinda fun we are talking about).

Solution

It is not possible in near future to change the mentality of the whole of India just like that. It will take time, there are people who are raising voice about it and that’s good. Banning porn, parental internet control these things are not going to work. You guys are smart enough to know how to get stuff even after so-called bans.

The only possible solution is Sex Ed in schools and colleges. We, as a society need to open up for this. Yes, there are cultural issues, but we need to change as per time. Actually, ancient times were more open about these than the current time. But when we say Sex Ed, we need to think of a complete solution. This Education should be age appropriate and culturally sensitive. This discussion is big and we will try to cover it separately in another article.

We Need Something Like This

Sex, Etc. the online Sex education website, created by teens and for teens. This is the perfect solution. Online, dedicated, simple, to the point, direct participation, anonymity all things are there. At Dejavuh, we wish to have such service for Indian teens too. But that may take little longer time. Till then you learn it from Sex,etc. You can ask them your questions on their forum.


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He is a techie, geek or you can call him a nerd too. He likes to read, observe stuff and write about it. As Simple as that...

He is also CEO and Co-Founder of Dejavuh.com